Why is dad so stupid




















Cam put it best when he said, "I'm sort of like Costco. I'm big, I'm not fancy, and I dare you not to like me. This blue-collar dad played by Mike O'Malley tore audiences' hearts out in the best possible way when his son, Kurt, came out to him during the first season of "Glee," which aired on Fox from to The single dad put his football dreams for Kurt aside, saying, "If this is who you are, I love you just as much.

There aren't many men who could handle six children, a wife, a dog and a career as an architect, all while wearing tight plaid pants. He was just the greatest. While not the sharpest knife in the drawer, "The Simpsons" character definitely loves his wife and kids. Homer made his debut when the animated comedy first aired in December Gruff yet lovable, Jack played by Dan Lauria worked through the daily grind of middle management on the s-'90s series "The Wonder Years.

There was something comforting about Jack's straight-shooting style and inner softie. One scene in the sob-inducing show featured Jack and Randall at a dojo, where the instructor had Jack do push-ups with his son on his back -- and refusing to stop. Story highlights Fathers like Chris Routly are fed up with their portrayal as inept buffoons on TV Routly created a petition against Huggies commercials that showcased clueless dads Huggies revamped its ad campaign after Routly and others objected to it.

There's a movement under way among dads in America that's changing what you see on TV. Across the country, more and more are fed up -- and rising up against the stereotype of the inept, clueless father. It's often the chief gripe among the dads I interview about modern fatherhood. David Holland, father of three, rails against "doofus dads" in ads.

In his blog Blather. More Videos We say we want our kids to think critically and to develop their own points of view. But do we? Do we really? But I feel for her as a parent watching her child grow up and disavow her deeply held beliefs, however cockamamie. And you know what? I give her credit for raising a kid who questions authority — who speaks truth to power, you might even say.

A goddess, I could conjure wonders. My children trusted me implicitly. I only had to show them a fuzzy video clip of an owl on a skateboard, bake a lopsided Pikachu cake , or expound, sketchily, on gravity or the Vikings to be lauded a hero.

Now they laugh hysterically when I try to impart some rudimentary sex education advice, deal with Scart cables or express an opinion on Syria. Have I really asked my younger son five times whether he has swimming tomorrow? Recently they have derived great pleasure from repeatedly showing me a video in which you have to calculate the probability of there being a goat or a car behind a set of three doors , which leaves me tearful with confusion.

As parents of bilingual children, we are at an additional disadvantage. Of course, we are far from alone and that is some comfort. All teenagers think their parents are stupid. When my son teensplains the causes of the first world war to me a modern history graduate , I remember the conservation biologist whose son teensplained the need for renewable energy to her and her alternative energy consultant husband, and another acquaintance who was treated to a lecture on menstruation from her year-old son.

First, it can be comforting to think that there may be a degree of karmic comeuppance involved: you did it to your parents and some years hence, your children will suffer in turn. As a teenager, I was certainly convinced of my vast intellectual superiority over my parents, Professor Beddington and Professor Baldwin, in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary.

My father has a mathematical model named after him, but I spent six years believing him to be the stupidest individual ever to walk the face of the earth. You're brave. And to be fair, it's usually uttered by someone older who is part of a different generation. But still, it's not like I'm out fighting in a battle or traversing a field of land mines with my kids. I'm just shopping at Target. Are moms "brave" for taking their kids on errands? Of course not. You expect that from moms. So if you're not willing to pin a medal of honor on mom simply for being a parent and going grocery shopping, don't bother with one for dad, either.

Mom today. Mom" is a cardinal sin in the dad world, and when you say it to an involved father, you're taking a metaphorical dump all over him. Fatherhood isn't a version of motherhood, and dads aren't playing the part of a mom.

That implies parenting is some sort of women's work -- and we're not having that. That's why, as articles like this one point out , it's time to retire an antiquated term that is harmful to both dads and moms. Please, for the love of all things holy, stop referring to fathers as babysitters. We're fathers, not paid caretakers. People would never look at a mom with her kids and ask if she was babysitting.

Yet when a dad is out with his kids, so many people automatically and without thinking about it call it babysitting. Hell, even some dads refer to it that way because it's so accepted. So just remember -- dads don't babysit.



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